My blog is like Gretchen Wiener's hair: it's full of secrets. Here I reveal my oft-hidden passion for social justice, makeup/fashion, porn, and all the fandoms. My name's Julie, and I'm a white bi woman trying to learn about oppression and how to be a better ally. INFP. Please don't call me a girl, I prefer to be called a woman; however, I prefer “sir,” not “ma’am” or “miss.” Most of my posts involve trigger warnings. I’ll do my best to keep up with those. If you see anything labeled incorrectly or not at all, please let me know. In the same vein, if I say something oppressive please call me out if you feel comfortable and/or willing. I fuck up and would appreciate it, though of course no one has to.

femmedreamboat:

by Cyree Jarelle Johnson

I’m (not) sorry to inform you that femme privilege does not exist. Not in the queer community. Not in the world at large. Does. Not. Exist. In fact, the very idea of inherent “femme privilege” is rooted in misguided misogyny. It operates under the erroneous idea that…

(Source: kalindymillions)

autismgender:

slayboybunny:

fuck the idea that a predominantly “feminine” thing is inherently gendered while a predominately “masculine” thing is universal or default. stop perpetuating the idea that a story about the human experience can only be told with a boy as a main character and…

balletroughmyeyes:

Daria Bochkova

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flannelbuttphenomenon:

life hack: get a tattoo. if the people at the job interview notice it and look concerned, laugh a little and explain “it’s just temporary.”  months later if your boss asks why you lied and said it was a temporary tattoo, stare off into the distance and whisper with a tremulous voice the poor excuse for truth your subconscious has been fighting for its entire insignificant existence: “everything is temporary.”

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artinparsi:

خب خدا که فقط متعلق به آدم هاي خوب نيستخدا ، خداي آدم هاي خلافکار هم هستو فقط خود خدا هست کهبين بندگانش فرقي نمي گذارد… في الواقع خداوند عند لطافتعند بخشش ، عند بيخيال شدن …عند چشم پوشي و عند رفاقت استرفيق خوب و با مرام همه چيزش رو پاي رفاقت مي دهداگر آدم ها مرام داشته باشندهيچ وقت دزدي نمي کنندولي متأسفانه بعضاً آدمها تک خوري مي کنندو اين بد روزگار استبايستي ما يه فکري به حال اهلي شدن آدمها بکنيماهلي کردن … يعني ايجاد علاقه کردنو اين تنها راه رسيدن به خداستکه بسيار هم مهم هست
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god doesn’t only belong to good people!
our god is the god of the criminals as well
and it is only god, who doesn’t look upon people differently
in fact, god is the heaviest dude in gentleness, the heaviest dude in kindness
he is easy going and the heaviest dude in forgiving, the heaviest dude in friendship
a good friend, will give everything for his buddy
if people live by the rules, they never steal again 
but unfortunately, some people want everything for themselves and this is very bad 
we have to do something to tame people 
Taming means…. creating Love
and thats the only way leading to god, this is very important.

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Marmoolak (The Lizard) 2004

artinparsi:

خب خدا که فقط متعلق به آدم هاي خوب نيست
خدا ، خداي آدم هاي خلافکار هم هست
و فقط خود خدا هست که
بين بندگانش فرقي نمي گذارد
… في الواقع خداوند عند لطافت
عند بخشش ، عند بيخيال شدن …
عند چشم پوشي و عند رفاقت است
رفيق خوب و با مرام همه چيزش رو پاي رفاقت مي دهد
اگر آدم ها مرام داشته باشند
هيچ وقت دزدي نمي کنند
ولي متأسفانه بعضاً آدمها تک خوري مي کنند
و اين بد روزگار است
بايستي ما يه فکري به حال اهلي شدن آدمها بکنيم
اهلي کردن … يعني ايجاد علاقه کردن
و اين تنها راه رسيدن به خداست
که بسيار هم مهم هست

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god doesn’t only belong to good people!
our god is the god of the criminals as well
and it is only god, who doesn’t look upon people differently
in fact, god is the heaviest dude in gentleness, the heaviest dude in kindness
he is easy going and the heaviest dude in forgiving, the heaviest dude in friendship
a good friend, will give everything for his buddy
if people live by the rules, they never steal again 
but unfortunately, some people want everything for themselves and this is very bad 
we have to do something to tame people 
Taming means…. creating Love
and thats the only way leading to god, this is very important.
.
Marmoolak (The Lizard) 2004

susiethemoderator:

Lately, feminists like Annie Lennox, bell hooks and Emma Watson have taken issue with Beyoncé’s sexual openness. While trying to discredit Beyoncé as a feminist, they seem to have forgotten one of the most important parts of Chimamanda’s speech in ***Flawless.

"What does a lady dress like, exactly? And who decided what a lady looks like? What bearing should one’s clothing have on one’s identification as a feminist? This is exactly the kind of misogynist policing we’ve fought tooth and claw against for decades, and to level this line of “reasoning” at Beyoncé is not only antifeminist, it is despicable." (x)

We should also note that Black Women are perceived and fetishized as hyper sexual. Which is why mainstream feminists willingly call Miley Cyrus, Iggy Azalea, and Katy Perry revolutionary and in charge of their bodies meanwhile demonizing Rihanna, Nicki Minaj, and Beyonce.

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theunicornkittenkween:

Shitty webcam photos. But I’ve tidied up my room, look how pretty and magic my filming area looks. :3

Big bow in the middle there from kittensplaypenshop. Because it was too pretty to be packed away when not in use on one of my tails. <3

stem-cell:

deonte-s:

the idea of harry potter not only straddling two worlds between him (the british wizarding world and the british muggle world) but also being met at each end by two entirely different systems of historical dehumanization/subjugation (with harry on one hand being a…

(Source: fearknower1993)